south africa trip: tips for traveling with littles

We've been back in the states for just under a week now, and it was a whirlwind close to 2017 for us. Since Ryan and I started dating back in 2012, we've wanted to go to South Africa. There's never been a perfect time though. We did long-distance dating, got married, got pregnant, and we PCSed all in an extremely short timeframe. South Africa remained on our minds though, and after this last deployment, we knew it was time. In August, we booked our tickets to Johannesburg to see my family, and we counted the days.

We were meant to fly on December 8th at 7:30 AM. A few days prior, we went to New Hampshire to stay with my family so we could fly from Boston. In the wee hours of the morning of the 8th (aka 1 AM), we left NH for Boston, and we arrived at the airport at 4:30 AM. Full of excitement, we showed up at the ticket counter, passports in hand...only to be turned away. South Africa passed a law in late 2015 requiring minor children (regardless of whether they're flying with both parents) to have their birth certificates and their passports. We only had their passports.

Luckily, we had a great gate agent, and she put us on the exact same flight the next day, free of charge. British Airways is incredible, friends - use them. You'll thank me later. So, my neighbor scanned us the birth certificates, we got them notarized, and we did the same exact thing the next day. This time, we got on a plane...we were on our way to South Africa! After 19 hours and a connection in London, we arrived in Johannesburg at about 10:45 AM the next day.

Getting there was a journey. With little ones, regardless of how well they travel, it's hard. Both boys traveled beautifully, but Ryan and I didn't get much sleep at all on the plane. The second flight is longer, and it was on an A380, which has so many seats, there's actually very little leg room. So, once we got to my family's house in Pretoria, we proceeded to take a 3-hour family nap.

After showered and sleeping, we finally felt a little saner, and we let the boys romp around the yard. My Uncle Roelof lives in the house my mother grew up in, so seeing the boys play around the yard with their cousins - whom they've never met, mind you - was extra special. One of my cousins' wives brought a whole bunch of her children's' toys over to Roelof and Rina's house, and the boys played on their plastic push motorbikes every day we were there, so it was a huge hit! 

We only spent a day and a half in Pretoria when we arrived though because our next stop was Zebula, which deserves a post of its own! Zebula is a nature reserve and golf course + spa. It's way out in the Bosveld by Bela-Bela, about an hour away from Pretoria, and we were meant to spent our next couple days there relaxing, which was the perfect way to decompress from the trip.

Because this trip was three weeks long, I'll document it in a few different posts, but for now, here are our top tips for international travel with little ones:

  • Always, always, always read the fine print. Expedia didn't mention the boys' birth certificates, but it did have a link to the South African travel bureau. We got lucky. Make sure you check all travel notifications.
  • The airlines offer a little bit of a loophole with alcohol. You know those quart baggies you can use for liquids? You can fill them with nips, and they're allowed. We enjoyed some Bailey's at 37,000 feet.
  • Pack an extra set of clothes (or two). Since our flight was so early, the boys arrived at the airport in their jammies. Once we made it through security in Boston, we changed them into their clothes for the day. When we connected in London, we changed them back into their jammies for the night, and we re-dressed them when we arrived in South Africa. So, we had 3 changes for them and one for each of us.
  • Pack all meds you might need in your carryon. We had the boys' Benadryl for their allergies, plus cough syrup and more all at our disposal.
  • Snacks, snacks, snacks. We wish we'd packed more, and we learned for our trip home! Even though you're fed on international flights, kiddos are hungry at different times. Snacks are a quick way to divert a frustrated toddler.
  • Call your airline prior to travel and ask for a bulkhead seat if you have an infant or child under two. It didn't work out on the way back for each leg of the flight, but it made a huge difference for the flights we had it. We had leg room, space for the boys to curl up, and we had close proximity to the galley, all of which helped.

We learned, as this was our first international flight with the boys, that planning is key. However, it's also super important to be flexible. We had to be patient, forgiving, and open to change. Honestly, most people on the plane were fantastic, and the flight crews on British Airways were incredible. I can't thank them enough for their endless patience with my boys continuously pressing the call button. Whoops! 

But stay tuned...I'll recount our travels later this week!


  1. I love this, thanks for sharing all about your trip with the family. I barely get out of Nebraska these days so reading your posts are wonderful for me. And such helpful information for those making long travel trips via air. Take your time emailing me, I've got such a busy week lady and my photography has slowed down a bit due to the freezing temps. Can't wait to hear your helpful suggestions :)

  2. Such great tips and looks like you guys had fun!

  3. I still cannot believe you did this with two littles! I'm really glad you finally made the trip. I didn't realize your mom was from there!

  4. Oh man the birth certificate little snafu definitely wasn't a great way to start the trip but so awesome of BA to help you out like that!! So many great tips for international travel with littles! xo, Biana -BlovedBoston

  5. These are such great tips! I'm definitely going to keep these in mind for the future.

  6. I loved your IG posts... this is our dream trip for sure! And I think you're a superhero for doing this with two young kiddos!!

  7. These are great tips. I am so sorry about the birth certificate issue. I love that British Airways took care of you. I am on BA for my England and Ireland trip at the end of the month.

  8. Argh, that's annoying about the birth certificates, but glad you got there in the end!! I'm glad you had a good experience with BA. I usually fly with them to go back to the States and all my miles and status are with them, but honestly, I am not happy with their service at all and now avoid using them and use other One World airlines instead!!